Have you ever found yourself excited about a really good idea and then notice that you talk yourself right out of it? This is called RESISTANCE, Self-Sabotage or being "BLOCKED". It's a way that the brain attempts to keep you safe from things like exposure, not fitting in, criticism, judgment, risk, etc. If you're not careful, resistance can rob you of success. I've noticed the women I work with often resist ideas by saying things like this: "That will be really hard work." "
If you think that I'm lucky or that I work really hard to enjoy success, then you may be struggling with RESISTANCE to your own success. If that is the case, this is an easy fix. Whenever I hear that "success is hard work", or that things have to "get tough before they get better", that makes me crazy! I 100% DISAGREE! YES, sometimes we have to stretch out of our comfort zones, but, friends, this ain't hard! Avoidance is what keeps many of us from achieving ultimate success
Hesistation, fear, avoidance, delay, holding back, resisting dreams and goals. We all do it. If you trace back the reason for your resistance, you may find it correlates with a painful or shame-filled experience or memory. Tune in to this week's episode of Monday Morning Mastermind to get the whole story: If you find yourself embarrassed, ashamed, or feeling not perfect enough, please don't go into resistance mode as I did. I avoided speaking professionally for more than 2
Today is equal payday. We still have a gap in how much women earn compared to men, especially in Corporate America. I'm not one of those people who complain that corporations don't value women, I don't put my energy there. Instead, I tend to focus on how you value yourself, how much you charge, and how to ask for and expect to be paid for the value you offer. Without a doubt, there is work to be done, and a playing field that needs leveling. It begins with YOU. If you need so