If you want to make a change in your life, but are waiting for someone else to do something to make the change easier, you may be stuck in a job or relationship far longer than necessary. For some reason, we think that we are obligated to stay in situations that clearly don't make us happy. People stay in uncomfortable situations for years, just waiting for an excuse to leave. My advice...not all relationships were meant to last a lifetime, so stop trying to force that. If yo